Dr..angelica.shie Mp3 Free Sound Fffects Download

Highly-requested video. Help your spouse heal. #childdevelopment #imago #couple #couplesgoals #parenting #attunement #appreciation #trauma #healing #marriage #husband #passive #passiveaggressive #avoidantattachment #wife #reactive #controlling #disorganizedattachment #dismissiveattachment #connection #fightorflight #familysystems #goldenchild #parentifiedchild #couplestherapy I”ll do #scapegoated and golden child (common too) and #lostchild with scapegoated/parentified (favorite but not common in therapy unless major crisis) eventually.
Commonly the scapegoated partner has an “I’m too much and abandonable” wound, and the golden partner has a “who am I if not the pet/hero” wound. So very often, the golden partner is high risk for enmeshment with his parent, and the scapegoat partner is extra sensitive to his “disloyality.” Not all the time, but often. Can it be gender reverse or same-sex? Of course. #anxiousavoidantattachment #anxiousdisorganizedattachment #anxiouspreoccupiedattachment #anxiousattachment #familyoforigin #scapegoat #blacksheep #goldenchild #identity #childdevelopment #validation #couples #Relationship #communication #enmeshment #attunement #mirroring #couplestherapy
#iq #adhd #audhd #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #relationships #intelligence #depression #anxiety #MentalHealth #psychology #iqtest #genius #mensa #g
The wife thinks this guy is a #narcissist, but that’s not the case. This #couple does amazing in #therapy. #marriage #relationships #communication #wounds #corebeliefs #trauma #couplestherapy #healing #anxiousdisorganized #anxiousattachment #attachment #avoidantattachment #bigfive #bigfivepersonality #neurotic #anxiety #emotional #imago #partner #boyfriend #girlfriend #therapist
Edit: hope this didn’t seem like it was the children’s job to attune to Mom; that’s always Dad’s job, and if that doesn’t happen, outsource to therapist so can begin attuning to self (this always requires grief because it’s so not fair to have to do so much of your healing yourself.) Also- I wanted to add so much more but capped at 10 min. One thing is these women HATE doctors (for a different reason than their hopeless husbands hate doctors) and this is a barrier to getting into therapy. Doctor visits are actually sources of pain, not just sources of anxiety. Being dismissed by someone unconsciously experienced as “authority” is just as scary as having someone say there is something “wrong” with you. I actually think the fear of being dismissed and not really understood is the most dysregulating part; like “there is bad in you that needs to be managed” instead of “what’s it like for you? Tell me about it” is exactly the pain of her childhood. #anxiety #peoplepleasing #neglect #familysystems #masking #parenting #menopause #attunement #childpsychology #bigpicture #psychology #marriage #divorce
#goldenboy #avoidantattachment #boundaried #parentifiedgirl #disorganizedattachment #anxiousattachment #unboundaried #adhd #neurodivergent #autism #asd
60% of #men I see in #therapy, so probably 40% of the population. Not #narcissists, but #avoidantattachment with missed #developmental opportunities. #imago #couplestherapy #childdevelopment #goldenchild #oldestboy #infant #patenting #husband #wife #adhd #autism #attachment #anxiety #masking #defensemechanism #peoplepleasing #emotions #boyfriend #girlfriend #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #hopeless
Probably my most important video because these people are sunk in masked #shame and #anxiety so they dont wanna go to #therapy. But maybe they’ll see this on the internet and #understand themselves, their partners, and where to start. #anxiousavoidantattachment #explanation #clarity #pathway #howtoheal #Relationship #goldenchild #neurodivergent #developmental #autismspectrum #conditioning #rules #passivity #passiveaggressive #avoidantattachment #preoccupiedattachment #disorganizedattachment #defensive #minimizer #ostrich #loner #trainer
Some people have literally had their unpleasant emotions conditioned with a “danger” expectation. That means whenever they feel human things like overwhelm, uncertainty, imperfection, boredom, alone, unknowing, etc., their nervous systems activate a stress response. If this lasts a long time, the body enters a prolonged “freeze” response to anticipated-danger. The intersection of #adhd and #anxiety, often with #catastrophizing / #controlling parent and #passive / #absent parent. #fightflightfreeze #conditioning #dorsalvagal #polyvagal #distresstolerance #classicalconditioning #dbt #act #radicalacceptance
#marriage #husbands #wives #advice #avoidant #anxious #attachment #communication #Relationship #connection #therapy #therapist #psychologist #couples #emotions #regulate